In My Life tells the story of two decades of talking and walking in which boundaries blur and friendships are forged.  It is a stunning exposition of ethnography-of-(e)motion as the South African transition dead-ends at the top and ignites from below. 

-Ashwin Desai, author of We are the Poors: Community Struggles in Post-Apartheid South Africa and Inside Indian Indenture


[In My Life] is a book of striking life stories by youth AIDS activists in South Africa, crafted over the course of two decades, an entire generation. The collection’s 13 narratives by young people of their lives from their teens to their thirties turn into evocative and reflective accounts of the unfolding of a self. In these, In My Life shares something delicate and important: how to create a way of knowing one another deeply in our country of distances and invisibility. Their stories of ordinary nearness, of friendship, risk, trust, hurt and trying again convey the vital possibilities of everyday realities in South Africa. Together these give the collection an almost breathtaking force. Through it, we are invited to wonder what it means to be near one another, in a multitude of ways. In My Life’s hard-won, jagged intimacies and depth of relation come from 20 years of practicing a radical, difficult, continual becoming and togetherness.

-Gabeba Baderoon, author of Regarding Muslims: From Slavery to Post-Apartheid, and The History of Intimacy